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I read an article online the other day that mentioned the engagement of a well known DJ.  The article showed a photo of them together.  My first thought was ’she’s hot’.  But then I looked at the difference between the two of them.  She is incredible, he’s just a regular guy.  She’s tall (she is a model), he’s short.  But the look she had in the photo was one of admiration, even lust.

So how to do you make yourself attractive to a beautiful Russian woman, whether it is face to face or online?

The answer is easy – be a man.  If a short DJ can score a beautiful woman, why not you?

When dating face to face, being a man is about being an alpha male.  Online dating is a little more subtle, but you still have to show her you are the man she wants to get to know above everyone else.

Don’t Wait For Her To Show Interest

Do you fear rejection?  And if you do, do you show it online by sending a very short introduction letter and see if she responds before putting in some real effort?  Why?  If you find a woman attractive and are genuinely interested in her, let her know it.

Your Russian woman will receive several emails in the first few weeks when she joins.  True, she will contact a few men herself if she is attracted to them.  But why sit there hoping to be one of those.  Go for it and let her her deal with how she feels about you.

Have Your Own Opinions

Showing her you are interested is important to the success of an internet relationship.  Being a door mat isn’t.  Yet it is surprising the amount of men that will agree with everything a woman says to avoid scaring her off.  Even worse is agreeing with what she says to determine how she feels about a topic.

Act like a man and express what you think.  Be comfortable with your opinions but receptive enough to understand other people’s perspective.

Don’t Be Too Available

Russian women respect men who take their commitments seriously. It shows you will be a responsible father and partner who takes care of his family.

You may want to talk to her, but don’t end up being the type of guy that puts off a family meal with your parents just so you can be online when it is convenient for her and then proudly tell her that.

Now I am not saying you should play hard to get.  What I am saying is that you should make it clear that you have your life to lead and it does not resolve around her.  Be willing to find a compromise to adjust your life to fit her in.  But don’t rearrange it to focus on another person.

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